Unofficially Married

So I would say it is safe to say that D and me are unofficially married. LOL  We just don't have the rings, license or share the same last name. 

Will we ever take the actual walk down the aisle?  Who knows?  Everything is tied together as we speak.  We treat each other like hubby and wife.  We make life decisions together. We raise each others kids.  We are there for each other.  We make each other laugh, fight - cry, and all that in between. 

In the 2+ years we have been together we have experinced so much and we are still standing.  His ups and downs with his job, me losing my job and getting a new one, kids growing up, our family being crazy, my craziness, his quirks, getting our baby Precious, managing this trucking thing he has going on, car buying, and of course our Exs (can't forget them because without them we would be boring).  ;)

I heard once that you can't be in total love with one person 100% of each and every day - all day long. They will make you mad.  You will want to punch them or run them over.  You may want to run away.  And vice versa.  Does that change one day and that is how you know that it is time to have a wedding and get officially married?  Is there a big neon arrow that pops up when the time is right?

I don't know why a couple of rings and name change can cause people to change.  

We both have the dream of a wedding.  His in a field (country boy for ya) and me on a beach or old church.  Neither one of us want to go to the JP...been there, done there, got the divorce papers.  You can't plan too much in life so I want to treasure planning this for me and D.  I kind of want to run off and it just be us. No fuss, no mess, no family drama, and no draining of the bank account.

Well that's enough nonsense for today.  Hope everyone has a blessed week.

Is it time to go home yet???