Sometimes I feel like I've Heard it All

Happy Holidays!!!!

I know I've been a little quiet lately.  That's probably a good thing.  Nothing has me to write a blog lately but today I have a winner. 

Drum roll please...................will you please break up with me?  It's too hard for me to do it so please break up with me so it will be easier on me. 

Yes I actually heard that today from my sister.  She was telling me about her man or project or whatever you would call him.  He has been close to MIA since turkey day.  We even wondered if he landed in jail.  Over the last year or so he has come up with some pretty good statements etc but this one takes the cake.  He has always proven to be one of the more selfish people in our "inner" circle. 

Most people when they know it's over let the other person know it's over.  For those who can't handle the confrontation, chose to either drop off the face of the earth (never to be seen or heard from again) or send texts / emails you saying it's over or leaves you a voice mail or has a friend tell you or just like in the fabulous Sex and The City episode...leaves you a post it note.  I have never come across a person that asked me to break up with them so they don't have to be the bad guy.

I'll admit that I don't like to be the bad guy but when it comes down to it...if I have to be the bad guy I'll do it.

Now I know my sister will figure out the best way for her to handle it.  Me? Who knows how I would respond if I ever did.  I would most definitely have to find away to spin it where he still remains the bad guy.